Thank you for this piece. I loved your conclusion in particular. I am a bilingual, multiethnic dark-skinned biological mother of a bilingual, multiethnic son presumed to be white. His existence completely altered my perceptions on how to challenge racism and led me to write a book on it, published this past April. I think it may be of interest so I am including a link to it. It is entitled “Strength of Soul.” https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1940939720/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_image_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1